Knowledge Hoop

As we prepare for the Christmas holiday and the end of the year, many of us may be measuring how successful we’ve been in achieving our goals.  If you haven’t experienced the growth you expected this year, it’s time to figure out what’s really holding you back.  We all start out the year with great intentions, and I would even venture to say that most of us even have the appropriate level of commitment in the beginning.  However, something happens and we allow outside forces to stop us from continuing to pursue our goals or we are stopped by something within us.

I have recently been reading a book titled, An Enemy Called Average, and in one section of the book, the author has a list of questions that he charges the reader to answer.  While reflecting on the things that often stop me when I think I’ve hit a stride, I decided to raise the following questions to you:

1. What one decision would you make if you knew that you would not fail?  –  FEAR
2. What one thing should you eliminate from your life because it’s holding you back from reaching your full potential?  –  DISTRACTIONS
3. What good thing have you committed to do that you’ve quit doing?  –  ENDURANCE
4. How have the people you respect earned your respect?  –  RELATIONSHIPS
5. What are your gifts, talents and strengths?  –  PURPOSE

Take some time and answer these questions for yourself.  In your responses, I’m sure that you will find the answer to what’s holding you back.  Next to each question, I’ve listed a factor that has to be addressed if you want to achieve success.  Let’s take a closer look below:

FEAR – At some point, we all have dealt with the fear of failure.  F.E.A.R. is merely false evidence appearing real.  However, when we experience it, it feels very real.  Make a commitment to yourself to move in spite of the fear.

DISTRACTIONS – I know that I’m not sharing any breaking news when I say that life moves at a rapid pace and is often full of distractions.  To achieve anything in life, you have to learn to move past life’s distractions.

CONFIDENCE – Become your own cheerleader.  There will be times when you may be disappointed to find out that the people you thought were in your corner are not.  Naysayers are a reality, but you have to believe in yourself and know that the naysayers can’t keep you from your destiny.

ENDURANCE – I think endurance and consistency go hand in hand.  Don’t worry if you find yourself falling short in this area because endurance is developed over time; you have to work at it.  No one runs a marathon without practicing.  The same concept applies when we set out to accomplish our goals.  The more we work at it, the more endurance we’ll build over time.

RELATIONSHIPS – If you’ve followed my blog, you’re familiar with the phrase, “iron sharpens iron.”  Check the company that you’re keeping.  If they are not goal oriented, it very well may be the reason you’re having trouble achieving your own.

PURPOSE – This is merely my opinion, but if your goals are not aligned with your purpose, you may have a difficult time reaching them.  I think our inner-compass prevents us from moving forward.  If you feel like a hamster on a wheel, it may be time to assess if your goals are derailing the journey to your destiny.

There’s officially one month left in 2011.  If you have fallen short in accomplishing your goals, spend some time reflecting on the questions included in this post and make a commitment to start again.  In the book, An Enemy Called Average, the author states, “Thoughts lead to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny.”  Let’s adopt this principle, recalibrate and try, try again.